By: Cynthia Soita
Waris Dirie, the celebrated Somali model and human rights activist, opens a window into the dark realities of Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) in her autobiography Desert Flower. As a young girl, she was subjected to this brutal practice, an experience marked by searing pain, excessive bleeding, and the haunting shadow of lifelong trauma.
Her escape from her homeland wasn’t just a quest for freedom but also an act of defiance against a culture that dehumanized its women.
Years later, Waris endured recurrent bouts of agonizing pain due to complications from FGM, necessitating a surgical intervention. Doctors revealed the cause: scar tissue that had hardened, causing chronic infections and obstructing natural functions, a grim reminder of the harrowing ritual she had endured.
The tragedy of Waris Dirie’s story is not isolated. Millions of women worldwide, especially in Africa, continue to suffer under the yoke of FGM.
While it is often cloaked in cultural justification, the practice leaves devastating scars, both physical and emotional.
Even more tragically, some men who demand to marry circumcised women later abandon them, claiming dissatisfaction, as the women are unable to experience or express sexual pleasure. This irony underscores the futility and injustice of the practice.
FGM is categorized into four main types:
In Kenya, Type 1 and Type 2 are the most prevalent. These forms are often performed on girls between infancy and age 15, creating a cycle of pain and subjugation.
FGM has far-reaching consequences. Women face a plethora of challenges, including:
Kenya has made significant strides in combating FGM, with rates declining over the years. However, the practice persists, particularly among specific communities like the Somali, Samburu, and Maasai.
Advocacy groups and government initiatives have been at the forefront, but deeply rooted cultural beliefs continue to pose a challenge.
Kenya's legal framework firmly opposes FGM:
The Female Genital Mutilation Act (2011): Outlaws FGM and prescribes severe penalties for perpetrators.
The Constitution of Kenya (2010): Guarantees freedom from inhumane treatment and harmful cultural practices.
The Marriage Act (2014): Declares marriages involving FGM victims invalid if consent was coerced.
The Female Genital Mutilation Board: A government body established to coordinate anti-FGM campaigns.
These laws underscore the country's commitment to eradicating FGM, but enforcement remains a challenge in remote areas.
FGM is perpetuated by a combination of:
The aftermath of FGM is harrowing:
Survivors of FGM in Kenya have several avenues for help:
Medical support: Public and private health facilities offer reconstructive surgery and counseling.
Counseling services: NGOs like the Maendeleo Ya Wanawake and Amref Health Africa provide trauma support.
Legal aid: Organizations such as FIDA Kenya assist in seeking justice.
Community forums: Awareness programs empower survivors to speak out and educate others.
The story of Waris Dirie, and countless women like her, reflects the deep scars left by FGM. While Kenya has made commendable progress, the battle against this practice is far from over. Breaking the cycle requires a collective effort from individuals, communities, and governments. Survivors need our compassion and support, and society must challenge the oppressive norms that perpetuate such cruelty.
What are some of the absurd benefits you have heard from those who promote FGM?
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